$124 Trillion will Change Hands.
70% of advisors lose the relationship after a spouse passes.
Check Your Attrition Risk Today
$124 Trillion
Will Change Hands.
70% of advisors lose the relationship after a spouse passes.
Check Your Attrition Risk Today
The Trillion Dollar Closure Connection
You’ve spent your career earning your clients’ trust, guiding them through life’s biggest financial milestones and helping them build lasting wealth. But when the inevitable happens and that wealth transfers to the next generation, will their heirs trust you the same way?
The Trillion Dollar Closure Connection reveals how to turn life’s transitions into your most powerful opportunity for growth. It’s more than a book; it’s your roadmap to deeper relationships, greater retention, and sustainable success in the era of the Great Wealth Transfer.
You’ll discover:
How to protect your hard-earned relationships when assets change hands and new decision-makers step in
Why emotional connection is the new competitive edge that builds loyalty across generations
A proven framework to future-proof your business by transforming client conversations into meaningful, lasting partnerships
Written by Heidi Struve Currey and Mikalee Byerman
Seasoned leaders with decades of combined experience in the financial industry, communication, and leadership development. Heidi spent 21 years as a financial advisor, sales leader, and corporate executive before cofounding First40. Mikalee is an award-winning author, strategist, and sought-after national speaker. Together they bring real-world insight, practical strategies, and empowering tools to help advisors strengthen client relationships across generations.
Workshops & Training
That Transform Client Relationships
Strengthening client relationships isn’t about numbers, it’s about connection. Our interactive programs are designed to help advisors go beyond traditional client engagement, giving you tools to foster trust, loyalty, and lasting referrals. Each experience combines emotional intelligence with practical business strategies, helping you build bridges across generations and create genuine, human-centered growth.
Client Workshops
Deepen relationships with your clients and their loved ones through engaging, interactive workshops.
Advisor Training
Equip yourself or your team with the mindset and methods to thrive in the new era of relationship-driven advising.
Keynote Speaking
We deliver practical strategies that empower advisors to thrive through meaningful connections, clear communication, and purposeful action.
What Advisors Are Saying
“WOW! Thank you for such a sincere, thoughtful and informative presentation! It was clear that our clients and advisors found so much value in the content from their level of engagement and focus. What was most impressive, is how once the presentation ended, everyone stayed seated fully engaged in conversation for at least another half hour! Advisors and clients alike came up to us after to thank us for this opportunity and booked several client appointments on the spot. This was a perfect event for our FAs and I will be sure to share wins as they come through.”
Upcoming Events
Stay ahead of the $124 trillion Great Wealth Transfer
Create Your Own Closure Map: Avoid an End-of-Life Scavenger Hunt
February 16 – Virtual
A virtual session focused on preparing your personal closure map to avoid an end-of-life scavenger hunt.
Legacy Living: Conversations Worth Having Now
February 25 – Orange County, CA
A conversation-centered event exploring how to thoughtfully prepare for life’s most meaningful transitions.
These are private events, but we welcome booking inquiries. Feel free to contact us.
The $124 Trillion Risk Meter
Advisors face a common challenge: retaining clients as wealth passes to the next generation. Nearly 70% of widows switch advisors within a year, and only 19% of heirs stay with their parents’ advisor, costing billions in lost relationships. Our Risk Meter shows your firm’s potential exposure and highlights ways to strengthen loyalty before transitions. Discover your risk level and learn simple actions to protect relationships and secure a share of the $124 trillion Great Wealth Transfer.
How It Works?

Answer quick questions about your client base and engagement practices.

Receive your personalized Attrition Risk Score. See where you’re most exposed.

Discover next steps to retain clients and deepen multigenerational relationships.
Client Attrition & Revenue Loss Calculator
Schedule your free strategy session today.
Calculations assume client loss rates and revenue per client remain constant over time. Calculator is for illustrative purposes only.
Create Your Own Closure Map
Life can change in an instant, but preparing for it doesn’t have to be hard. The Closure Map Workbook guides you through 40 simple, meaningful steps to organize your plans, reflect on your memories, and document what matters most. Work at your own pace as you turn uncertainty into peace of mind and create a lasting roadmap for yourself and your loved ones.
You’ll discover how to:
Organize your essentials: safely compile passwords, key contacts, and important documents all in one place.
Preserve your story: capture the memories, traditions, and recipes that define your legacy.
Plan with confidence: create practical checklists to guide conversations with loved ones, advisors, and attorneys.
Tools & Resources to Help You Take Action
Featured Tools
These hands-on resources are designed to support both clients and advisors as they navigate legacy planning, communication, and connection.
Each tool brings emotional intelligence and structure to what can often be difficult or avoided conversations, transforming them into opportunities for trust and clarity.
Closure Map Workbook
A guided workbook that helps clients organize their stories, wishes, and key details, creating clarity and peace of mind for everyone involved.
Closure Encounters Card Deck
An engaging deck that sparks honest conversations, laughter, and deeper emotional connections among clients and their loved ones.
The Map Walk
Step-by-step guides that make it easy for advisors to lead meaningful workshops and family sessions with confidence.
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Articles & Insights

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Stuff Is Just Stuff — Without Stories
At First40, we fiercely advocate for documenting our memories — writing down in your own words (or better yet, speaking in your own voice) the backstory of important moments, heirlooms, or traditions. So today I want to thank Trish, a recent workshop participant, for sharing her family’s beautiful legacy story
The Living Legacy Workshop Review
“The Living Legacy workshop helped me connect more deeply with my faith-based clients as they shared their first and favorite stories with me. The workshop allowed them to open up about sentimental moments in a fun environment.”
Melanie M. Financial Advisor
"WOW! Thank you for such a sincere, thoughtful and informative presentation! It was clear that our clients and advisors found so much value in the content from their level of engagement and focus. What was most impressive is how once the presentation ended, everyone stayed seated and fully engaged in conversation for at least another half hour! Advisors and clients alike came up to us after to thank us for this opportunity and booked several client appointments on the spot. This was a perfect event for our FAs."
"Create Your Own Closure Map" is a central location to gather crucial medical, financial, and personal information. It is an indispensable resource for you, your family, your medical agent, your power of attorney, and your survivors. Complete this workbook for your own peace of mind. It will greatly reduce caregiver burden and support end-of-life care that aligns with your values and personal preference. I strongly recommend this priceless gift for yourself and for those you love."
“Closure Map Workshops reinforce that death isn’t the star of the story; instead, it is a life well-lived — because your influence continues.”
"The team spoke glowingly of the work you did with them. Congratulations again on developing and now delivering your wisdom to the world! "
"My husband and I are going through a time of change now, including some emotional and medical stuff for our family, so this was just the right time to receive the workbook. I have found it stress-releasing to start "making the workbook my own" — it prompted me to pull out my color pens (after many years! I love to color) and start playing with one of the color-it pages, and immediately do a couple of Word Search sheets. I've done a lot of teaching about planned giving, but it's wonderful to have an overall view of your "40 steps" at this stage of life. I'm already adding a couple of favorite recipes to the workbook, as well! "
“Having personally experienced the loss of three parents in seven months, and the accompanying grief, confusion and stress, I found The First 40 Workbook to be both whimsical (fun!) as well as a wonderfully practical guide to tackling all of the end of life details. It is far better to address these ahead of time versus during or after a loved one's passing.”
"Create Your Own Closure Map is a workbook that everyone, yes everyone, should read and use to prepare for the inevitable life transition and loss of a loved one. The workbook is easy to use, is extremely helpful, practical, and is straight forward, yet the “heart” of the workbook is Heidi’s genuine and authentic vulnerability and personal insights that are masterfully woven throughout the workbook. This topic can be overwhelming, yet Heidi breaks the map for closure into simple yet not simplistic steps for you to easily develop your own unique path. "
"I am working on our Southwest Business plan for 2026 and would absolutely love to include you both and the Workshop into our cadence of offerings next year."
"...you are both a pleasure to partner with and I would love to have you both back in 2026. What you have to offer is incredibly needed."